Popeyes said:
Yea basically I live on a small uni campus and I think part of my problem is that if I fail or make a stupid approach I'm afraid of the gossip. I see alot of the same people everyday especially past a certain time. Is this rational thinking and how do I get over it?
What kind of "stupid approach"? Do you plan to fling poo at her or something?
The only kind of "stupid approach" is an awkward one. In which case you need to work on your basic social skills. But I find it hard to believe that you're that inept in that department.
So stop being scared of the ladies, stop taking yourself so seriously, and go out and get you some.
Hell, I've got scrawny gay-looking friends who just sit in class and pull ass. Even when I was a chump in college, I'd at least have one or two opportunities a year get THROWN at me without even trying.
And yeah, your'e in the wrong forum.
