Anybody agree?

[Zman1]

Here is my take on the whole female situation. Keep in mind I am talking specifically about most women from 21-30.

I know how to attract a woman and show my interest, play the whole doc love system on her. Unfortunately, there is a problem. There are so few women that are actually deserving of our time and effort in trying to get them. Do a lot of you guys from my generation feel the same way? I have been going out and meeting girls in bars, bookstores, coffeshops, and social gatherings. The single ones, especially the very physically attractive ones, just have no personality, and tons of issues, insecurities and hangups. That just turns me off.

Is it me or does it seem that most decent women are already falling all over or in love with some guy? Or are there more decent women out there 21-30 just most of them stay at home and do not go out?

You can know everything about using the system on a woman is all well and good, however what good is it if the candidate seems like a mindless lemming?

Out of 20 women you would approach how many do you think would be relationship material? Just from your own experience in going out and meeting them?

 

[00Kevin]

Only 1 out of every 50 women you date will be ok for a relationship.

That is a fact and it is just the way north american culture is.

What that means is that you have to be prepared to Next over and over again. You also have to be prepared to introduce yourself to many women.

Finding a good woman is just like finding a good job. If you don't get off your ass and send your resumes out to 100s of employers you won't have any luck.

The sad thing is that there are many men who spend more time finding a job then they do looking for a woman.

 

[tmpgstx]

Some good points Zman. I've got the impression that many of the attractive single ones are often single because they have little or no self-respect. It gets them into a vicious cycle of bad short-term relationships and one-night stands. Some of them are catapulted into this life-style because of expending alot of time on a guy that treated them bad and made them even very insecure of themselves. This cause the approval-seeking process which you see many of them that sleep around do.

Alot of the decent ones do fixate on a guy because they're more LTR types. The 'party' girls do just that - party on and do their thing with x guys.

Findig a decent single one from 21-30 is like mining for Gold. Your chances of mining for Gold might actually be better.

 

[Sapiens]

All three of you are right on the money!!!

Finding a good woman truly is LOTS of work!

-Sapiens

 

[Zman1]

Respect is definately lacking with most women in that age range. Such a shame. I agree with the gold digging remark as well as putting out a resume to many women. I think that is the most important thing of all. You need to choose your females wisely. There are so many women to choose from, and a lot of them are bad.

Once you find one that has what you are looking for personality and confidence wise, then you play the system and sink your claws into her.

Dont settle and be picky about your woman.