"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any Wingmen In Santa Fe?

CageFighter505

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Just moved to NM from the Southeast to work on personal development and elevate my MMA training to the next level. I'm also taking classes at an arts school in Santa Fe with tons of HB8s-10s (quite a few 10s), and basically have them to myself because the guys here are pretty introverted - so any Don Juans in Santa Fe or Albq. who want to practice your skills on a college campus with lots of hot girls just hit me up. I also go out locally between 3 & 4 nights a week (plus weekends) so am always down to hit the nightlife scene. Not new to PUA by any means (just weaned myself off the Mystery system), but am new to the DJ Forums & trying to learn new approaches to sarging & personal development. Lately I've been reading The Book Of Pook & The Art Of War, but am spending most of my time in the field (I sarge in the morning during workouts, around campus in between classes, and everywhere at night). Looking to meet other field-oriented people who are practicing DJ techniques in real life instead of just reading about new methods every week. Get at me. PEACE.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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