"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any truth to the submissive jap stereotype?
- Thread starter jurry
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Its not that they are manipulatin as an afc which pretends to be nice to a girl, they tend to be genuinely like that, I dont think many of them ever seen in their family or social life women abusing men or pissing them off and braggin about it, its probably something alien to them as much as shouting silence and expecting it to a bratty girl is to an american man.
Saying all that I have found them a million times more pleasant to date than American girls. They'd give you a foot massage in bed and all sorts, and seem really happy to please you as long as you treat them right.