"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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r4zor

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I met this girl in our club last month. I got her number and we used to talk regularly. The thing is every time I asked her something like if we're goin out... I asked her where she wants to go.. she will always say "its up to you.." and I kind of get confused if she say that everytime...
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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That doesn't make very much sense...

You:"Where do you want to go?"

Her:"It's up to me."

okay...?
 

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What do women want?

Above all what do women WANT from a man?

They want to be DOMINATED.

By you saying were do you want to go? your giving her the power.

You are the man you decide were you want to take her.

Ninja out
 

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Never ever ever ask a girl that are dating where they want to go. Never. Never. Never.

It is your roll to decide this EVERY time! Give her a few options if you'd like but that is flat out your responsability.

Read the bible.

She is telling you this is ********.
 

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Your suposed to be a man. Take charge..... If she want's to do something special she will let you know. You have to make the plans, unless she suggests something else (in that case compomise)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

r4zor

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its just i want to make her feel kind of "special" in a way... but i agree with you guys...
 

spider_007

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by taking charge and being a man, you ARE MAKING HER FEEL SPECIAL. She feels special just because YOU are taking your presious time and spening it with her.
 

r4zor

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ok then... i won't bother that thing anymore... :D thanks.
 
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