"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Any skin expert here?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Tea Tree Oil is a natural antibiotic & antiseptic. Dab full strength (sparingly) 3 times a day or add 1 drop to 1/4 cup warm water, pat it with a cotton ball (make sure its 100% cotton) or you can use tea tree soap. Eat fruits mainly Strawberries, grapes & pineapples. They all contain high amounts of AHAs (Alphahydroxy acids). AHAs help exfoliate the skin by removing dead skin cells that can clog the oil glands. Drink at least 8 glasses of water a day.
For "supplements" I advise using Vitamin C (Ester C is a good one) 1000mg 3 times daily, Milk thistle & most importantly Acidophilus (New Flora from New Chapter take as directed)
Stay away from the main enemies (Sugar, alcohol, butter, cheese, caffeine, chocolate, fried foods, hot/spicy foods) & anything else w/ brominated vegetable oils. If you shave use an electronic or a single blade in the direction the hair grows.
If all else fails (severe acne) you can use a treatment called "Blue Light Treatment".
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.