"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any short DJ's out there?? Issues with height!!

bornyesterday

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Height is relative.
Over here in the Netherlands you'd be small indeed. The average height of ethnic dutch men is around 6'1. Women's average is over 5'7.
I'm 5'8 and when I'm in paris for instance I feel huge, back here I feel small.
I recommend a trip to the Netherlands (Friesland is ideal, thats where all the blond blue-eyed redcheecked purebloods live). You'll feel dwarfed. When you're back in the states you'll feel right at home. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Captain Harlock

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One of my friends is like 5'7 and he doesn't have any problem getting women. Then again most of them are as tall as he is so I guess it's not an issue. I've never seen him with taller girls though.

I'm almost 6'2 myself. I prefer women of my height (not very common) to shorter ones, it's ideal when making out.
 
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