supersaiyanjason
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where can I find this buckwheat in America?Rudra said:Start eating buckwheat. It´s a traditional breakfast in Russia (and I hear in China) and it is pretty cheap. It´s not really wheat (the name is misleading), botanically it´s close to rhubarb. Russians eat tons of the stuff. It´s great because
a) it´s gluten free and
b) much more importantly - it contains a fairly high level of rutin (a flavonoid), which is the same stuff as in red wine, that makes it great for your capillary system. It is even used as a cure agains capillary diseases.
Check it out - I think it´s a terrific addition to anybody´s nutrition plan
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckwheat
especially http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buckwheat#Medicinal_uses
and of course keep close watch of your blood pressure and take appropriate medication, if it is too high.
For some years now, there has been awesome medication on the market (angiotensin II receptor antagonists, ACE inhibitors) that have hardly any side effects at all and are much safer than beta blockers, the med of choice up until some years ago.
I'm not from the US so I can't really comment...but I'm sure some US docs do recommend it you'd think?spesmilitis said:Every modern country in the world have their doctors recommend fish oil to patents with heart problems. Why not in USA? I have a feeling that the pharmaceutical industry is behind that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NFL athletes are freaks. Very few people in the adult male population will be able to get to their level in terms of power generation (speed/strength, etc). Apart from the genetics their training/nutrition is different from that of a soccer player.Frank2500 said:Thanks to spesmilitis and all of you who responded to this post. I used to think vegetable oil was healthier than olive oil...I've been cooking with vegetable oil almost every day. I need to stop that, then. Spesmilitis, you suggested that all cereal should be avoided. Do you think that includes cereals such as oat meals and almonds? I guess my primary concern has been about losing muscle mass via excessive cardio, but man, the risks of not doing the cardio seem to far outweigh the benefits, so I think I'm going to have to get back on the elliptical pretty soon and do the "fat burn" option for my heart rate. I haven't done cardio now in almost three weeks.
But I have another important question and this I would really like to hear what you guys think: How in the world are professional football players in the NFL able to remain so huge and muscular despite all that running, whereas there's no doubt that if you played soccer consistently, you will lose muscle mass almost immediately? What are these football players taking that prevents them from losing muscle mass so effectively? What is the secret?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Improver21 said:low dose asprin.
although this is with the assumption that you have no stomach ulcers/ blood type abnormalities as its a fact that even at a low dose, asprin will effect ur blood clotting.
if you do lots of vigourous contact exercise just beware and be aware.
consult ur GP. in aussie the GP is a free service, i dont know about where u live though.
check out this article: http://www.jr2.ox.ac.uk/bandolier/band86/b86-2.html
its a meta analysis (read analysis of a number of studies) on about >25,000 people and the effects, both positive and negative, of asprin.
Fish oil failed to show the reductions in the amount of LDL-cholesterol necessary for us to recommend it. It has other benefits and many doctors (mostly primary) might suggest it. If your aim is to prevent a heart attack, you should focus on exercising, eating a balanced diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables, avoiding smoking and drinking and keeping an eye on your blood pressure and cholesterol profile. Also, if you're a diabetic, keep your sugars in check. That'll drop your risk so low that you won't have to worry about tiny incremental gains from things like fish oil.spesmilitis said:Every modern country in the world have their doctors recommend fish oil to patents with heart problems. Why not in USA? I have a feeling that the pharmaceutical industry is behind that.
spesmilitis said:^^^^^
I'm sure that you will agree that LDL levels are not the only dimension of cardiovascular health.
Even if you are not diabetic, I'd still highly recommend keeping your sugars/refined carbs in check.
It is good enough for Europe, and from the studies they cite in this article, I'm sure its good enough for the US:
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/10/03/h...953e11bac34784&ei=5088&partner=rssnyt&emc=rss