Any other guys on here like this when it comes to picking a new city?

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Listen_to_Olly

Banned

May 3, 2017

Skyline said:
No, no, no... Brown skinned dudes can do well. Maybe not with blonds but they do do well. Mexican and Hispanic guys can do well as long as they dress nice. It's a lot more superficial but not really... Dress nice, groom nice, and talk nice and you can do fine.

You might have to sacrifice some of your ethnic background dress code though. Arizona has kind of a tight community.

If you don't look pasty white, you can do well. Being tan, or just darker in general, is definitely an attractive trait.

dude seemed to really want to get the blonde party girl types in AZ

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.