"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any other Dark Haired-Dark Eyed Meditteranean, Hispanic Guys experience this?

SL2012

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I am Italian looking, almost black hair and very dark brown eyes with a moderate complexion.

I guess opposites do attract, because I have noticed this time and time again.

Women with dark features (Dark brown to Black Hair) and Dark eyes don't really seem to notice me or give me the time of day. Of course, I have hooked up with these types before and gotten some attention from them....

BUT.........


Attention and IOI'S from Lighter Haired Women, with fairer skin and lighter eyes (Think Northern European and Western European) seems to be much, much greater?

Any other "Dark Men" experience this too?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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floydb25

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Yes... especially younger, shorter ones. But those are my type anyway. :cool:
 
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