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Master Don Juan
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I hear ya man. I've had a few women reach out after I ghosted them weeks/months ago, looking for attention. I'm polite, yet I kept those convos real short.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Any of you prefer staying single/casual dating?
- Thread starter MoreThanSmooth
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They know your "hot" and getting it and try to take it for themselves . People who do that never stop. So be mindful perhaps cut them off . They take it by running game, trying to attention wh0re and trolling you . This is why it's imperative for that driven successful man to not lay with low life strippers and hooter girls .
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