"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any of you ever hit it off with a co-worker?

solo1

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I'm asking cause i got this hb8 receptionist where i work, if given the chance i can see things happening. she's been there for a little over a month. And only recently has she begun talking to me.

I know the majority of people here are against this, and i know the reasons behind it. But i've never heard real stories or real experiences of this. It's kind of those "seeing is believing" things really.

So what have been your experiences with female co-workers, whether it may be flirting, dating, fvcking, ltr...etc?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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I had a friend who was in the process of hooking up with this girl that we worked with. It seemed all good at first, but when things got shacky it seemed pretty sh*tty. They wouldnt talk and would always avoid each other. There were some girls who wanted me but i thought it would have been pretty weird afterwards.
 
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