"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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any good books on bodylanguage ?

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Ive learned a few things from different posts here on body language , but im really interested in reading more about it , how to read women's , and how to change my own , anyone know of any good books ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowdnes is probably the best as far reading the body language of women.

As for trying to learn "alpha body language," honestly that isn't that effective IMO. Body language is an outer display of what is going on inside. Work on your confidence and inner game instead, and then your body language will improve naturally.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Undercover Sex Signals by Leil Lowdnes is probably the best as far reading the body language of women.

As for trying to learn "alpha body language," honestly that isn't that effective IMO. Body language is an outer display of what is going on inside. Work on your confidence and inner game instead, and then your body language will improve naturally.
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that actually makes a lot of sense , ordered the book from amazon , also going to run by gym to day to look at their membership plans
 
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