"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So a hot 16 year old just moved in on my block. (I'm 17). There was a Halloween party on my block that I didn't go to because I had to be at school for something. Now, do you have any clever suggestions as far as introducing myself?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go up to her and say hi. Being straightforward is always best and will get you the most success. If you are too nervous, try talking to other girls first to get over your approach anxiety. Being able to go up and talk to a girl will put you above 80% of guys already as it shows you are confident.
 
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only problem is that I have no idea which house she lives in...
 
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Next time you see her out on the street, just talk to her. I assure you that no matter what you say she won't whip out the pepper spray.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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**** her. Seriously. Forget about her. You will see her sooner or later, and you WILL aproach her. Rejection if always better than regret.
 
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