the_gunslinger
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it neednt be massive, perhaps just 10 por so pages, just letting us know about how to achieve good styles, colour co-ordination, how much to spend, other suggestions could be cologne raitings, stuff like that
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
any chance of a fashion section
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BallZ of SteeL
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i like this idea..hope to see it soon
BallZ of SteeL
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bump! just to make sure someone will notice it..its a pretty good idea
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they have pushed me into this.
now i am not gonna stop.
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they have pushed me into this.
now i am not gonna stop.
jtws
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yo.
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Not enough fashion topics that we'd need a special forum just for that.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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and anyways believe me it would be wasted on some of these numbnuts who freak out cause they dont know whether to go ghetto or preppy.
look elsewhere for fashion tips
look elsewhere for fashion tips