Any chance at a club if you're not white and good-looking?

[bobbob]

My point was, I see average looking white guys get HOT girls all the time. I don't see average looking asians, indians, middle easterns, etc. doing the same.

Black guys benefit from everything on tv, music, etc. saying that they're the coolest people in the world.

If I saw someone who looked like William Hung pulling hot girls, then I'd be convinced that looks don't matter.

Maybe professional help would be a good idea.

I'm not blaming "the white man" I'm just stating my observations.

 

[MrHarris]

Sir, may I ask what race you are then?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Originally posted by bobbob
My point was, I see average looking white guys get HOT girls all the time. I don't see average looking asians, indians, middle easterns, etc. doing the same.

Black guys benefit from everything on tv, music, etc. saying that they're the coolest people in the world.

If I saw someone who looked like William Hung pulling hot girls, then I'd be convinced that looks don't matter.

Maybe professional help would be a good idea.

I'm not blaming "the white man" I'm just stating my observations.

First of all, stop putting white people on a pedistal...Second of all, dont always belive what you see in the club, alot of people go there with girls so it seems like they are picking up girls there, but they arnt...Third of all, if you are darker, its harder for people to see you in the club...When I get at darker chicks, it is harder to see them, and I know its hard for people to see me too, cause Im black and tall and alot of girls are shorter then me...But it isnt like Im ugly either, cause outside the club Im good, but its hard to see people when its that dark...Thats why you cant take the club too serious...I just go to get twisted and dance and fukk around with people, it isnt even a good envirnment to pick up cause of the dark lighting, loud music, and the fact that you and other girls may be drunk and noone looks good sh1tfaced...

 

[So Many Ways]

Originally posted by bobbob
That's great vague advice, go where the women are buying what you're selling ...

There's nothing vauge about it. If the club isn't working for you as far as picking up chicks, try something, somewhere else.

 

[PRMoon]

Clubs are all about confidence... Actually scratch that, clubs are all about you having fun. If you go there looking around nervously at everybody else and forget that you came there to get a little crunk and do some dancing, then you'll always be disapointed.

Don't cite reasons as to why you can't get a girl, blaming outside factors is not going to get you anywhere. When you go to a club you should go with the thought of "I'm going to have a good time tonight" and that's about it. When you're into your own thing and having fun then the rest will work itself out.

 

[Juan_Man]

I have some clubbing experience (not very good ones) and I think I've figured out how clubs work. Clubs are not about confidence. They are about looks. But they are NOT about physical good looks. It's about whether you look 'experienced' or not. Girls at clubs have this sixth sense about whether or not the guys who are approaching them are experienced. If you are a guy who has had his share of successful closes and one night stands, you will get the girl. If not, then it doesn't matter how goodlooking you are, YOU WON'T SUCCEED. This can be the only explanation why I see ugly-as-sin guys pulling hot girls left and right and goodlooking guys striking out left and right. The only way to get that 'experienced' look is to practice. But trust me, you will be facing a series of rejections in the process. It's like a catch-22 and it sucks, but that's the way it is.