"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anxiety Progress Letter

TRSX

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I've decided to delay email myself this so that in 3 months I can see my progression. This is probably a pointless post for most of you, but maybe someone can use this as inspiration if they are in the same boat as I am.

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Dear TRSX,

As of today (July 24th) , you are still experiencing anxiety about yourself. You claim to have all the confidence in the world but realize that there is still something missing in your life. That something is being 100% happy with yourself. You've past a relationship in 3 years in which 2 of them you were not happy and did nothing about it, because your vagina was bleeding.

The false sense of security you have with yourself that "having a woman in my life" will help me be a better man, is complete horse ****. You don't need women, women need you. You need to better your body and your mind before for you and only you. 7+ Billion people in this world, and there is only 1 of you. What makes you so special? Because when you read this, you better of changed something in your life to progress yourself. Be the confident cool guy, don't sit and think and over analyze about what you did/say/want to do with a woman you met.

Who gives a **** what they think? Infact, who gives a **** what anyone thinks?

I want to remind you of what you are, a man. What did men do before cell phones, before the internet, before they actually had TIME to wonder about any of there life besides you? Nothing. They were out doing **** like killing boars, building houses out of stone, anything and everything. When they wanted a woman, they didn't try and play a game and swagger there way and be someone they are not.. they told them this is what it is, this is how its gonna be, and this is who I am.

So stop chasing something you shouldn't be chasing. Stop thinking of things you shouldn't be thinking. Go find a boar to kill, make a statue out of stone. Look in the mirror and repeat to yourself;

"You're a man, you're good looking, you have a great personality, YOU are the prize."

And clean the ****ing kitchen because chances are it's not clean.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brilliant post. What you wrote near the end is so true. You are the prize. Never forget that each one of us has something unique or interesting about us to attract the opposite sex. For some people it's easy to find and for others it takes work to find. When you do find it though, you'll notice the change in you and so will others. Remember if you don't think you're great, nobody else will. Good luck dude!
 
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