“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Antichrist_Star

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I want you to try something. One day, I want you to walk up to the hottest girl you have seen that day or in a while (this is directed more so to the less experienced but the more experienced are encouraged to do so) and without thinking, preparation or anything... and talk to her. Hell, you can even set a goal (like get her number) if you want to... but just try it. More than likely (especially if you are less experienced) doing this will scare the living hell out of you... and that is the point. In my three years of being here... I have learned many things, but one thing has really sunk into my head as of late. We are not breeding men, in fact we are doing the opposite... we are breeding machines.

Try and remember the days of some of history's greatest seducers: Ovid, Casanova, Picasso. They did not have Ross Jefferies (sp?), Allen Thompson, or David DeAngelo. They did not anti-slut defenses, two sets, or negative hits. Rules, regulations... none of that. If you have ever read any of Casanova's writings (something that I highly recommend) you would know that this man bedded more women than most of us will do in our lifetime put together. And what was the only 'technique' that he used... his insatiable desire for women. If there was as woman in his sights that he wanted... he pulled out all of the stops to ensure that he got her... there would even be times when it appeared that nothing else mattered to him besides that conquest.

Of course this composition has little to do with women... in fact it really has nothing to do with them at all. It has everything to do with life... your life. I am not telling you to throw away your rulebooks, but I want you to remember something: Limits are only things that your mind imposes on itself. Casanova's story is about more than just women... it is about having that pure drive. Not about developing skills until you become good at a craft, but having the motivation and the passion for that craft... whatever it may be, until you are willing to stop at absolutely nothing until you become the best at it. I want you to think about that story, and think about what I wrote. What drives you?

Until next time...

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Limits are only things that your mind imposes on itself.

We need to beat that inside of our heads until were blue in the face....

I think I will take you up on your challenge... ;)



Tootles....
 

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excellent post dude.

i hate seeing all these noob dj wannabes that plan out everything they are going to say ahead of time, without remembering something very simple; if you always prepare your approach and have something prepared, eventually you will run out of things to say. not necessarily the first time you see a girl, but maybe on the first or second date.

this goes for all you new guys out there: Plan your approaches only if you are trying to build confidence in your life. if your trying to pick up girls, feel her out and then flow. this is the only way to become the dj of your dreams
 

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Live by your own rules. Bend and break them. Learn from it.

If you really want women - then SHOW THEM you want them. "What about challenge?" If you show two women you want them... they are going to compete for you. If you show two women you might maybe kinda want them... they'll give up on you.
 

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Awesome post man.

Drive is more important then anything.

Dont misunderstand Matrix though, you can't keep looking for the one thing that will give you that drive. Like everything else in life: you get out what you put in. No less and no more.

You have to find something that sparks a small flame in your heart and keep at it. Keep trying, failing, feeling like ****, until that small spark becomes a driving inferno which redefines all purposes you once had for your life.

Beautifal post.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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straight to the bible:) too bad i can't try it out, since i'm in a ltr... d'oh
 

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very nice. covered some of that in my last post.
but you went into more detail about it.
Good job.
 
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