"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another good guy bad guy thread. Possibly the 1 millionth

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After coming back here and reading some of the posts it seems to me that there is still a bid of misunderstanding about this subject. Possibly from the newer members.

This has been said many times before. Listen, girls don't like jerks because they like being treated bad. They simply like them because they project an air of confidence and masculinity, whilst the good guy is oftentimes come across as weak and femenine. And there's nothing that turns women off faster.

You know who the biggest winners are? The nice guys who have shed their previous skin and have learned to be strong and confident. Nice + strong & confident = charming beyond beliefe.

It amazes me how often this point is neglected. If you're confident enough you can walk up to a hottie and start reading her the day's stock prices and she will feel attracted to you. Of course her conscious mind will think you're a mental case and she'll never go out with you but subconsciously she will feel that attraction. The trick is to go to her with a simple hello. Then if the conversation picks up and turns out she's intersted in investing, you can start reading those stock prices to her after all.

PS: Don't buy starbucks. Hasn't been raining enough in Latin America. Coffee prices are bound to go up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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