"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Another fvcked up night

Chamber36

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Yesterday was such great weather. It was like the best friday of 2015 so far - weather-wise.

So there were tons of girls out on the streets drinking. It was a sea of blonde hair. Which is a reason I love Amsterdam.

Anyways at the end of the day I just had to go out to a bar or something, because there was just something in the air.

So I eventually ran into my friends and we drank a bottle of vodka, then we hit the bar.

I ran into this chick, said something to her (no idea what), and basically started feeling her up. Then came my drunkard idiot friend, he wanted me to hold a book for him. So I took it and one of the girls started looking at it. I just let her hold it, etc. Anyways my friend comes back, and since he was now pissed off, he started blabbering about how I personally gassed 6 million jews, and that I'm a german. Lol.

The girls actually didn't give a fvck.

Anyways I tried to show my friend that the girl was mine, by putting my arms around her a bit, and she started basically shakin her ass against me and what-not. My friend, of course jealous, took my arm and put it around her even more, basically with my hand almost in her pvssy. Because I didn't want to get tense and scare the girl or change the vibe, I didn't really react so strongly to my friend, but I did kinda ease out of it a bit. I told my friend: "you're chasin her away", and yes, there: she was gone. So I went to take a piss and came back. Saw her again.

She jumped behind her friend and danced up against her, so I joined ASAP of course. Couldn't let that buying temperature drop. So then my other friend, who basically looked like Elvis the night of his death, obese and with bad skin, started harassing the girl as well. So I fvckin pulled his arm away before he could touch her. Going out with these guys is like putting club game on hard mode.

I wish I had a proper wing-man so I could just fvcking finger or fvck the girl or something, and her friends would be distracted.

Oh well. It was still a good night.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VladPatton

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With friends like that , you don't need enemies.
 
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