upsidedownside7
Don Juan
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I was studying at school and saw a girl studying from one of my classes. We never spoke and there were no seats so I thought "need the practice". She wasn't very cute but needed to sharpen my game. I put my sh*t down and say hey, she says hey and I say I'll be right back. I bring a chair and just plop myself down. I just start talking about class and so does she. I made it a point not to use many questions and just made statements. We talked for about 30 minutes so it was great practice.
I said "let's jet to class" and we did. The crazy thing is that when we were leaving her state completely changed. Sitting down she was polite but when we were going to class she was exploding with enthusiasm. It weirded me out. She mentions her boyfriend but I really didn't care. We go to class, take the test and when I leave she catches up with me. We start talking and she throws all these signs of me asking for her #. I wanted to test her and said I go to class during so and so time, come by and chill next quarter. She asked for my #, I gave it to her. She was leaving I said wait, handed her a pen and looked at her like "use it". We traded #'s, and split.
So some observations:
-If I got the situation right, she would have completely cheated on her boyfriend. Crazy to see it in real life. She even called him on the phone infront of me and as soon as she got off, forgot all about him. That women's intuition stuff is truly bullsh*t.
-When we changed the venue her vibe completely changed. Complete 180. Don't have an explanation but it was strange...
-When telling stories and sharing experiences, I have a major problem with telling facts and as opposed to sharing experiences. I hate saying "yeah and that's it". That drives me up the wall. I caught myself near the end and just tried to stop it. Don't do it, it will kill the momentum of your story/routine or whatever.
-This girl wasn't very cute and I layed off the ****y & funny because of it. I am a pretty good looking guy and already had a higher value in her eyes so I avoided it. I have a natural tendency to be sarcastic at times which came off as a neg and that really ruined the vibe. Save it for the ***** shields.
-I knew she wanted my # as a contingency plan. Doubt she would because she would be considered a slut. In these situations it has to be your fault and you must push the escalation. She was telling me that he makers her dinner and blah blah. She could have just been saying to make herself look better but she clearly was bored with him so it made sense.
I'd like some feedback. I have a few ideas on what I did correctly and what I need work on but the guys with experience would know better than I, so please give me feedback.
I said "let's jet to class" and we did. The crazy thing is that when we were leaving her state completely changed. Sitting down she was polite but when we were going to class she was exploding with enthusiasm. It weirded me out. She mentions her boyfriend but I really didn't care. We go to class, take the test and when I leave she catches up with me. We start talking and she throws all these signs of me asking for her #. I wanted to test her and said I go to class during so and so time, come by and chill next quarter. She asked for my #, I gave it to her. She was leaving I said wait, handed her a pen and looked at her like "use it". We traded #'s, and split.
So some observations:
-If I got the situation right, she would have completely cheated on her boyfriend. Crazy to see it in real life. She even called him on the phone infront of me and as soon as she got off, forgot all about him. That women's intuition stuff is truly bullsh*t.
-When we changed the venue her vibe completely changed. Complete 180. Don't have an explanation but it was strange...
-When telling stories and sharing experiences, I have a major problem with telling facts and as opposed to sharing experiences. I hate saying "yeah and that's it". That drives me up the wall. I caught myself near the end and just tried to stop it. Don't do it, it will kill the momentum of your story/routine or whatever.
-This girl wasn't very cute and I layed off the ****y & funny because of it. I am a pretty good looking guy and already had a higher value in her eyes so I avoided it. I have a natural tendency to be sarcastic at times which came off as a neg and that really ruined the vibe. Save it for the ***** shields.
-I knew she wanted my # as a contingency plan. Doubt she would because she would be considered a slut. In these situations it has to be your fault and you must push the escalation. She was telling me that he makers her dinner and blah blah. She could have just been saying to make herself look better but she clearly was bored with him so it made sense.
I'd like some feedback. I have a few ideas on what I did correctly and what I need work on but the guys with experience would know better than I, so please give me feedback.