"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anomaly In Field experience.

Purefilth

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Sorry bradd this isn't that full or detailed field report you wanted - its just a lil something ;)

Out wednesday with a few of the lads. Since theyre not quite the "Don Juan" types - I show them a thing or two.
2 number closes and a kiss close - not bad considering one of the numbers was a barmaid :up:
And the other was a stereotypical swedish gal (About 6'0", blonde, slim, tidy as fwwwrk)

Still A lot of the time I dont bother to call the girls I close on. Even If I do, theres always the occasions that they arent so keen outside the club. (which is fair - I have the same feelings sometimes - hence not bothering to call them.)

Any ways - Nothing hugely out of the ordinary in the pickups - Flirted with the bar maid a bit, push, pull, cheeky/funny. Later in the night - "Give me your number". DONE

Swede - saw her in another club - and you lads know, you see this one and you HAVE to get with it:). Caught her at the bar (my favorite place to converse). Eye contact, little chats, kino galore. Bit of a giggle Kiss close and left her.(territory marked and this is the push pull bit)

was leaving a little later (didnt have my fone) - "hey Im leaving, pass your phone - ill call mine and call you later"

Now the anomaly. Both chicks made contact and with some tight text game today, Both are still keen for it.


Now Holla at yo boy!:rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Swedish girls are overrated bro. Nice report though. :D
 
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