"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Annoying things Women do

Thread starter SmooveMooves
Start date Dec 9, 2013

sambwoy

Senior Don Juan

Dec 22, 2013

From the logic of many girls I have come across, its as though being 'unattractive' is somewhat 'immoral'. White knights can do this too. What are the disabled/disfigured men supposed to do? Eradicate any thoughts of ever getting a woman? Relegated to life as a hermit? I would like to think life is bigger than looks.

Last edited: Dec 23, 2013

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.