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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ankle pain ruining fat loss

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I've had been having great success losing the 30 lbs or so that I needed to lose to have that awesome body I used to have. I am dead broke and cannot afford a gym. I was jumping rope and jogging nearly everyday and starting to become in fantastic shape. Best of all I was actually in the habit of doing it. But after about 2 months of jogging and then 1 week after adding 20+ minutes of jumping rope before jogging, I started having very bad pain right where the foot meets the leg right underneath where you tie your shoe lace. I suspect that it is the tendons. I can produce the pain easily by hoping up and down as if jumping rope. I checked my insoles and they were worn through at the toes and were replaced. Now it is nearly a week later and I haven't jogged or jumped rope but the pain doesn't seem to have gone away and I still notice it a lot. I am so frustrated that there is nothing I can do for aerobic exersize. All I want to do is to be able to jog and jump rope. What should I do? Do I just need to wait more?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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-Do you have pain if you jump up and down without shoes on?
-Did the pain first come on while jogging or while hopping?
-Try manually (with your hand) moving the ankle through its range of motion. Do you feel any pain? If so, is it when you rotate it sideways, up and down, or both?
-Is the ankle swollen and are there any visible bruises?

Whenever I have persistent symptoms like yours, I start by decreasing workload by 50% and then if symptoms persist or worsen I follow the RICE (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation) principle and take some time off. If things don't get better following a full week's rest, I would go see a doctor, but I've never had that happen yet (fingers crossed).
 

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Sorry to be cliche but seeing a doctor would probably be best. But take mikeyb's info on resting first just to be sure.

What I've noticed many people think running is the way to lose weight and get a great body, but running in itself is dangerous because of all the pressure you are constantly putting on your feet. Running is much more intense than walking, but unneeded when trying to lose fat. Stick to walking mostly to avoid injury.

If you don't have weights or access to the gym, check this out for finding out ways to getting similiar benefits - http://www.rosstraining.com/
 

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mikeyb said:
-Do you have pain if you jump up and down without shoes on?
-Did the pain first come on while jogging or while hopping?
-Try manually (with your hand) moving the ankle through its range of motion. Do you feel any pain? If so, is it when you rotate it sideways, up and down, or both?
-Is the ankle swollen and are there any visible bruises?

Whenever I have persistent symptoms like yours, I start by decreasing workload by 50% and then if symptoms persist or worsen I follow the RICE (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation) principle and take some time off. If things don't get better following a full week's rest, I would go see a doctor, but I've never had that happen yet (fingers crossed).
-First came while hopping
-No pain when moving manually
-Not swollen and no visible bruises
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
Sorry to be cliche but seeing a doctor would probably be best. But take mikeyb's info on resting first just to be sure.

What I've noticed many people think running is the way to lose weight and get a great body, but running in itself is dangerous because of all the pressure you are constantly putting on your feet. Running is much more intense than walking, but unneeded when trying to lose fat. Stick to walking mostly to avoid injury.

If you don't have weights or access to the gym, check this out for finding out ways to getting similiar benefits - http://www.rosstraining.com/
Yeah I might have to try walking but that would take a long time since I used to job several miles. Unfortunately, I can't afford a gym. If I could I would definitely live on the stairmaster.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Based on your answers, I've actually had the exact same problem you seem to have, except mine came on while running. The cause of the problem seemed to be that I overtightened my shoelaces. I fixed the problem simply by loosening the lacing up a bit, but it did take me some experimenting to get it right.

Hope that helps.
 

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as an aside, this may be an opportunity to pay more attention to your diet rather than trying to run the weight off.
 
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