"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ankle and wrist weights

Bryce556

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What are your guys opinions of useing them? are they a good additon to a arobic workout, or could they be worn like on a day to day basis to increase muscle streanth, as well as a weighted vest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quagmire911

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If you don't have access to a barbell, buy either Never Gymless or Infinite Intensity by Ross Enamait on www.rosstraining.com.

Ankle and wrist weights won't do much I am afraid, but you can do a lot with a little...
 

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i think they're used for conditioning rather than strength. but they can be dangerous. i do a martial art and someone told me to increase the power of your kicks you should use ankle weights, but doing this means you could accidentally hyper-extend your knee and cause serious damage.

if you're doing any fast or sudden movements i don't recommend using them but if you're doing slow repetitive movements such as rotating your arms at the shoulder, then they could be useful.

i once tried using ankle weights for a whole day.. all they did was make me look like i had obese legs and hurt.
 

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Ankle weights have their uses. Dragon flags, for example, are easier to do weighted with ankle weights. Using ankle weights for kicking practice is a very bad idea, it doesn't work like it does in cartoons/movies. Your body moves differently when weighed on like that, so neither technique, speed or power will improve for regular motions, only for motions with the weights, which defeats the purpose of the weights. Same applies to running, punching, or whatever other regular body movement one might think ankle weights would help with.

Wrist weights are horrible in my opinion, while ankle weights can be used for some excellent exercises where weights on feet would be useful, I do not know of any good exercises that could benefit from wrist weights.

The money that good ankle/wrist weights cost, you could invest in better things like, the Ross training books that Quagmire recommended above. The books might actually be cheaper, as good ankle weights can be rather expensive (around $50 for 20lb pair).
 
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