stuka1939
Banned
Yes, it is true. No matter how good, fair, respectful, good-looking, courteous you are, you will always have others who don't like you.
In my opinion, success with money and/or women are the biggest reasons for being disliked.
Why am I writing this post? Some men are afraid to act or go after something worthwhile (e.g. cute girl) because they are afraid their actions might lead to some other men disliking them. Well, guess what? IT WILL!!!
Let's use an attractive looking woman as an example.
Any woman with a decent body and decent facial structure (e.g. A HB6 and higher) will ALWAYS have MULTIPLE MEN interested in her.
The only women who get left alone are the below average looking ones.
If you happen to be chatting up one of these HB6's or higher or out on a date with one, I GUARANTEE your action is pissing someone off somewhere out there. (Whether they see you doing it or could see you doing it). This person who dislikes you could be another guy interested in her or an ex-boyfriend/husband who has not gotten over her.
I guarantee you have felt an intense dislike for a guy (whom you don't even know) when you saw him chatting up that cute brunette at the bar whom you have had your eye on all night.
I know I have.
For example....
I currently don't like when I see this 24 year old dork at work constantly following around this girl I kind of like. (He likes her too!) and I am sure he does not like me also because I talk to her.
So, see? Expecting and worrying if EVERYONE likes you is a burden, impossible and a waste of time.
Once you accept it, you will feel alot better and at ease. ACCEPTANCE is the key.
In my opinion, success with money and/or women are the biggest reasons for being disliked.
Why am I writing this post? Some men are afraid to act or go after something worthwhile (e.g. cute girl) because they are afraid their actions might lead to some other men disliking them. Well, guess what? IT WILL!!!
Let's use an attractive looking woman as an example.
Any woman with a decent body and decent facial structure (e.g. A HB6 and higher) will ALWAYS have MULTIPLE MEN interested in her.
The only women who get left alone are the below average looking ones.
If you happen to be chatting up one of these HB6's or higher or out on a date with one, I GUARANTEE your action is pissing someone off somewhere out there. (Whether they see you doing it or could see you doing it). This person who dislikes you could be another guy interested in her or an ex-boyfriend/husband who has not gotten over her.
I guarantee you have felt an intense dislike for a guy (whom you don't even know) when you saw him chatting up that cute brunette at the bar whom you have had your eye on all night.
I know I have.
For example....
I currently don't like when I see this 24 year old dork at work constantly following around this girl I kind of like. (He likes her too!) and I am sure he does not like me also because I talk to her.
So, see? Expecting and worrying if EVERYONE likes you is a burden, impossible and a waste of time.
Once you accept it, you will feel alot better and at ease. ACCEPTANCE is the key.
