Exactly.. it's pretty silly to think of teenage girls "defying all the rules." When you're 50 years old you can look back and see if any women you knew actually defied any rules. Chances are.. they didn't.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.