"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An epiphany?

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Wow that really was a long,lets call it "mourning period" of holding a grudge towards women.

I woke this morning with another bad hangover and a strange humbling feeling like i saw the light and a weight was lifted off my shoulders.

I often preached that this is just how women are and just her nature and to blame them is wrong, but I never actually felt it and believed it in my bones and accepted it until now.

Its a good feeling.

I love women for how they are, can anyone else say that and truthfully understand what I'm saying?.

Whats that you say? she burnt you in front of all her friends? EXCELLENT!! God bless that woman, If you didnt repulse her so much you should give her a kiss and a hug for just being a woman.

Perhaps now I can get some of those "movie feelings" I had as an AFC back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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:flowers: THANK YOU! I know, women are beautiful
 

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My ex LTR ditched me in the worst way possible infront of all her friends.

Now she's nowhere to be seen...and I have all her friends as my friends :D
 

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TittieMan!

Welcome back. Glad to see you are not the angry, bitter as fukk misogynist you used to be.

Kudos.

PS- Hows the dad thing workin out for ya?
 

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Cheers Crotch, but dont get me wrong a layman will still probably misinterpret my beliefs as bitter as fvck misoginism, the only difference now is I accept it and I no longer blame her for it.

For example if he drops his guard yes she probably will fvck his best friend but you know what? Good for her if she does and I dont blame her for it because now I fully believe shes not doing it out of any kind of malice or actively going out of her way to fvck over the "good guy" or guy who lacks game etc.

See? now that could I guess come off as "misogynistic" to the untrained eye. But I see it similar to the Frog and Scorpion parable.

Once upon a time there was a scorpion who wanted to get across the lake. Once day he came upon a frog. He asked the frog if the frog would be willing to swim across the lake while the scorpion rode upon his back.

The frog replied, "I am sorry Mr. Scorpion, I can not do that because you will sting me and we will both drown." The scorpion replied, "I give you my word, I promise not to sting you, I just want to get across this lake. Besides that would be stupid to do that!" So the kind hearted frog trusted the scorpion. The scorpion crawled on his back and the frog began to swim.

When they got half way across the lake the scorpion stung him viciously in the back. The frog, now mortally wounded, screamed out crying: "Why did you do that? Don't you realize that now we are both going to die and drown in the lake!" The scorpion responded, "Yes I know, but I could not help it... IT IS IN MY NATURE"



Hows the dad thing workin out for ya?
Not so good,but having talks with a lawyer to see if I can actually see her. It will all work out somehow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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