"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An AFC aquaintance/friend?

hitop

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Hey guys I need some advice on what to do about an AFC pal of mine or his he? I've known this guy for a couple of years now and he isn't rotten to the core but he's done some things to make me question his friendship.

For starters:

1- he has c0ck blocked me on several occasions, most recently at a nightclub when I was right in the middle of some great conversation with a hb (an 8.5). Did he actually blow it for me? Hell no, I just laughed him off in front of this girl and continued like it was nothing. But it pissed me off anyway.

2- has backstabbed me to mutual friends around campus

3- I detect he is envious of me, he knows that I'm alpha male and that he wishes to be but is afraid to improve himself

4- he's an insecure guy and has low self-esteem

5- this guys whole life and happiness is centered around females first, like he's obsessed or something. Yes, he's the type of guy that will leave 4 or 5 messages on the girls machine

6- when i introduced him to sosuave and doclove he thought that doclove was a liar and and also accused me and other members here of hating women


What do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MVPlaya

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First off. SoSuave is not the solution to all your problems. If you have serious ****ing mental problems, you need a shrink, not a bootcamp. So see if your friend has got some issues upstairs. If he's an insecure ****head that hates on you, he makes for a poor friend. Secondly, why show him suave to begin with? It only seems like he'd use it against you.
 

hitop

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Hey mvplaya thanx for the quick reply --



First off. SoSuave is not the solution to all your problems. If you have serious ****ing mental problems, you need a shrink, not a bootcamp.
Well to be honest this buddy of mine is taking prozac for some kind of depression. And I don't know if this has anything to do with it but his mother and sister are both feminists. Maybe he's a male feminist?

If he's an insecure ****head that hates on you, he makes for a poor friend.
I'm startin' to think that way.

Secondly, why show him suave to begin with? It only seems like he'd use it against you.
This was way back in Oct/02 when I was AFC myself and having gf problems. I thought it was a great site and turned him onto it.

mvplaya, let me ask you honestly, if any of your buddies ever thru a c0ck-block on you, would you get rid of em?
 

MindOverMatter

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afc buddies jump at any chance to talk to a girl, so yes some of them will c0ckblock you, because they are desperate.

if you know he'll c0ckblock you, don't take him with you when you go out to pick up women. simple solution.
 
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