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Am I Wrong In This Situation?

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Basicly to make a story short, last night a friend called me and some of our friends to let us know that he was gonna come, pick us up and go to a club. So when he comes he says that he cant go to the club no more cause he doesnt have his id.

So another one of the people that we know comes from his house and he says that he knows of a party going on. I dont really vibe with this person so i said that i pass on that and that we could go to an 18 and over club since non of them except me and one person was 21.

The friend that wants to go to the party convinced them to go the party instead of the club, saying that "it was too late for the club" It was 12:15 am.

So simply i said that im not going and i did my own thing and went to the club by myself, i got 2 numbers and got drunk, so i had fun believe me i did, even met new people.

They also had fun i hear, the party was crazy, as one of them informed me.


So today we was supposed to go the mall, me him and another one of our peoples, he was driving, so he tells him that i cant come, when asked why, he doesnt give an answer.....

lol so am i wrong for not going with them, i wanted to go to the club and i did that, now is he mad cause i didnt go with them....kinda lame if thats the case.
 

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Plain & Simple said:
Basicly to make a story short, last night a friend called me and some of our friends to let us know that he was gonna come, pick us up and go to a club. So when he comes he says that he cant go to the club no more cause he doesnt have his id.

So another one of the people that we know comes from his house and he says that he knows of a party going on. I dont really vibe with this person so i said that i pass on that and that we could go to an 18 and over club since non of them except me and one person was 21.

The friend that wants to go to the party convinced them to go the party instead of the club, saying that "it was too late for the club" It was 12:15 am.

So simply i said that im not going and i did my own thing and went to the club by myself, i got 2 numbers and got drunk, so i had fun believe me i did, even met new people.

They also had fun i hear, the party was crazy, as one of them informed me.


So today we was supposed to go the mall, me him and another one of our peoples, he was driving, so he tells him that i cant come, when asked why, he doesnt give an answer.....

lol so am i wrong for not going with them, i wanted to go to the club and i did that, now is he mad cause i didnt go with them....kinda lame if thats the case.
Personally, I'd rather go out with friends than alone, but if you weren't feeling the party idea you had no obligation to go. Don't worry about your friend getting his panties in a twist, sh!t happens.
 

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yeah thats what i was thinking, i wanted to go clubbin since i woke up that moorning
 
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