"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gambit101382

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First of all let me say that i really can't stand how women think anymore they get pissed when they can't get their way but when a guy wants something he gets pissed on. Well i have going out with my gf now fiance for a year but she says that in hanging out with her ex bf will make her happy and i have asked her so many times that i don't like it and she just says oh so what should i do not be friends with him and she will get mad bc she thinks i am controlling. Now me her her ex and her exes gf all were hanging out and she is the type to flirt alittle and joke around and they were joking around and her and the ex ran into the back room and she said that i bet he will get upset with this and i was and then she gets mad bc i am i don't get it can someone tell me what the F*** is wrong with women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lost In Translation

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this answers your prayers

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59381

read my responses then proceed to kick a$$ :D



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

DJDamage

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I agree with Lost in Translation.

There is something very wrong when a girl wants to hang out with the ex. You two are planning to get married and she is pulling down Sh1t like this?? You and that guy for obvious reasons cannot be in the same picture.

You got to put your foot down and say: Its either him or me. If she continue's to b1tch tell her the wedding is off and grab a black book and start hasseling other women numbers. Show her you got a backbone and you won't tolerate this.
 

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You got to put your foot down and say: Its either him or me. If she continue's to b1tch tell her the wedding is off and grab a black book and start hasseling other women numbers. Show her you got a backbone and you won't tolerate this.

Exactly.
Don't put up with it. If it's like this now, can you imagine what it will be like down the road?
 

Crank_It_Up

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first, put the marriage on hold for a while.

second, start dating other women, but don't call it dating, call it "going out with a friend"

third, either she'll see the light, or you'll find somebody better, either way, you come out the winner.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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cactus3178

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Uh-huh.

Dude, I've been through that exact situation before. Sucks ass, eh? I'll have to fully agree with everyone above, you have to put your foot down, and I don't mean by telling her how much you don't like that behavior from her.

This is a textbook example of when you should FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE.

Go out with female friends. Do it often. Don't come home until 5 in the f*cking morning, and don't apologize! And then when your fiance asks what's up, tell her you need to spend time with your 'friends'. Don't make a big deal over it, but keep doing it until she gets a bit nervous. Do exactly what she's doing, plus a little more :)

One of three things will happen:

1). She'll get sick of it and dump your ass, meaning you had some problematic sh*t anyway.

2). She'll snap out of it and realize that she doesn't like the situation, and stop doing it herself.

3). You'll meet somebody you like better anyhow.


This is a great way of 'testing' her. You'll get the answer you need. Don't make a compromise for her and then another and another...not in this situation.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Agree with everything that was said above..

BUT...

NONE of this advice matters is you don't get one simple thing in your head first...

YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO LOSE HER

If you've got oneitis..then, nothing me or the other guys on here can say will help you because you've automatically decided that SHE IS THE ONE.

You have to be willing to let this chick go and possibly lose her if she doesn't fix the sh*t that is pissing you off.

Or you'll be doomed to a marriage where you aren't happy and will ultimately pay the bill for the divorce..in either route..this site will still be here...

either you'll be happy you made the right choice..or live with the mistake..
 

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Lost

Can't argue with you, as usual.

Why men let females run over them like this is beyond me. They are making the world worse for all of us.

Dietzcoi
 

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Quote - dietzcoi
Just remember 99% of them are supplicants hoping to get sex from the woman.


great minds think alike bro :D

i also liked this response from PS

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ Your woman in my opinion shouldn't be talking to an ex. It's ok to have men friends but friends whom she used to suck their dycks is not in my picture. “


and my response that closed the mouths of the AFC army

why can't you AFC, feminist brainwashed, pu$$y whipped, fake a$$, spinless, kiss a$$, little punks GET IT !!!!

oh wait .... thats because YOU are in that 99% who sniff around b*tches for 3 years as LJBF hoping to catch them in a moment of weakness usually involving alcohol, drugs or both to get sex (rape imho).

up here on the forum acting like AFC GUYS DONT HANG AROUND CHICKS HOPING FOR SEX.....

NOOOOO.....

guilty conscience ?


ahahaha........



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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