A girl I know who I'm NOT friends with but I've known for some time asks if I have a myspace page. She mentions that she needs someone to add to her top ten right in front of some dude who's obviously attempting to get with her. I find it rather weird considering that we were never friendly at all to begin with. Just acquaintances. Most of the time I did know her she wasn't single but now she has been for some time. I don't know if thats a hint for me to make a move but it does sort of strike me in that manner.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Am I reading too much into things?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well you don't really have anything to lose in this situation, especially if she is mostly just an aquantence, then if it doesn't work you aren't even losing a friend. That also is normally more than enough of a sign to try to game a girl. So I would give it a shot, but if it seems she isn't that interested and its just a coincidence she asked you, then just don't put too much effort or money(dates, hanging out) into it.
I also forgot to add that I asked her best friend out some time back. It never happened because she went for the bad boy who ended up leaving her and for some reason she still seems to like me. Would this make me look bad in any way?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you told an acquaintance you needed to add her on your top ten myspace page in front of some girl who was obviously trying to get with you, would you think of it as a hint for her to make a move?C-quenced said:A girl I know who I'm NOT friends with but I've known for some time asks if I have a myspace page. She mentions that she needs someone to add to her top ten right in front of some dude who's obviously attempting to get with her. I find it rather weird considering that we were never friendly at all to begin with. Just acquaintances. I don't know if thats a hint for me to make a move but it does sort of strike me in that manner.
If you told an acquaintance you needed to add her on your top ten myspace page in front of some girl who was obviously trying to get with you, would you think of it as a hint for her to make a move?
My answer to this is yes.
My answer to this is yes.