"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Am I just being jealous or......

Thread starter bunjy
Start date Nov 6, 2012

bunjy

Senior Don Juan

Nov 12, 2012

YOUR BORING LIFE said:
I'm sure you know this but a LTR with a 'wild party' girl isn't going to end so well for you, man.

Indeed, it never has in the past.

She has told me shes had it with partying though and has spoke about things like family in the future and studying in College etc.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.