"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am I jumping to conclusions too early?

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skinnyjeansanddrinks

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So, as I'm walking from my car up to the store in a parking lot I pass a van with a couple of girls in it. On the way out one of them is waiting on me, chats me up, and asks for my number. I give it to her and she texts me immediately as I'm driving off. I ask what she is up to for the night and she's off to drink with her friends. I decide to strike while the iron is hot and call her when I arrive at my house. She is partying(or what sounds like it in the background) and tells me she can't talk right now and to call her back. Um, ok? I hang up with no intentions of calling back, but she texts me a couple of hours later to see if I'm still awake. I didn't respond. I'm thinking I may have jumped the gun a little early attempting to avoid playing mind games.

Should I go ahead and see what's up with her or just continue to leave it alone?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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Why would you leave it alone? Doesn't seem like you have enough information to make some kind of conclusion about this chick.
 
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BigJimbo

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A total scam and I believe this story. Similar stuff happens in places like Riga, Latvia. Usually it involves some gorgeous 16 year old who gets a guy to buy her a drink (no enforced drinking ages in some parts of the world). When you get the bill it is for $500. You pay it or you get your azz kicked. All kinds of variations on the scam.

In America never trust people you meet in parking lots. Scam city.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Joe Stud

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Again with the "America this" and "America that". Look at this guys posts, everything is sooo bad in America. 2 things come to mind:
1) If you live here & dont like it ... screw! we wont miss ya.
2) If you dont live here... stay the he!! out! We wont come & kidnap you.

But the wallowing on and on about America (without doing something about it) is so womanlike. Stop already!
 
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