Am I interested in her or am I just a an AW poosy tease?

[:-)]

A slightly alternative to the usual 'is she interested in me' thread plus some insight on the minds of girls who confuse guys with mixed signals.

we've all been in that position where a girl at one point relays signals that she likes you only to retract said signals and shut down when you make a move. well that is what i am doing at the moment to this girl albeit unintentionally.

THere's this girl at work who is ok looking, tall, very intelligent etc. I know she likes me and lately when we go out we'll end up making out although i know its the booze talking although she says i'm just scared to give it a go.

in the morning i'll sober up and always be glad we never slept together and although sometimes i'll catch myself looking at her and checking her out on her good days in the main i'm not really interested in her.

so, as an outsider, what would you say? am i interested in her or am i just scared? i say i am not interested.

 

[nismo-4]

Mixed signals is low-no interest.

If you were interested, you would've made a move. Your princess might be in another castle.

 

[Tictac]

Game on!

Your rules.

 

[apprenticedj]

Let me queue up some R. Kelly:

Your minds telling you nooooooooo, but your body, your boDy's telling you yesssssssssssss!!! :rockon:

Sounds like you want to smash it, you're checking her out and as they say a drunken mind speaks a sober heart.

You also seem to realize that it might not be smart to slam your co-worker. Now many guys are able to realize this but most (myself included) are too damn horny to stop ourselves.

It's all about weighing pros and cons, if the job isn't a career meaning you don't plan on being there for long and if she's hot enough I'd say go for it.

 

[The_411]

If you are going to take the risk it better be worth it and from what you've described this girl is a eitehr slumpbuster, or one you might need everclear googles for ...

Maybe use her to get an intro to her hotter friends?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

This is the type of chick that will end of coming to your house blowing you, then asking for nothing in return.

Like TicTac said:

Your rules.

I'd just keep her at arms length, maybe a few light innuendos, harmless light flirting. If she tries to insinuate a date, let her know you shouldn't because you two work together, plus you're kind of seeing someone else. LJBF her. Then, let her start putting on the moves. She may then ask to hang out (all under the notion of "friends"). Let her know she can "stop by" or "hang out" at your place with you, "if she wants".

Let her put the moves on. Let her do the seducing. Make sure to throw some alchohol in the mix so you have something to blame your loss of inhibitions on. If you do end up banging her. Afterwards, you can say: "we shouldn't have done that." She'll be okay with that because it was her that was taking advantage of you. And then the next time: "you can come over, but you know, we can't do what we did last time."

And the cycle continues.....

Now you have yourself a little side piece that will be content with the opportunity to come over and possibly bang you. With nothing asked in return

 

[TheGambino]

Ye I find that sometimes, a girl talks to me on facebook chat, or laughs or flirts or dances with me, when I try to set a date after I number closed they come with excuses. They show interest, you show interest back trying to meet up and she or flakes or gives mixed signals.

I have had some girls in my life the past year, just a tease?

I mostly just delete the number