"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Am I going AFC?

kingw

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There is this girl I know for two weeks now. She is in a student community with me and I want to fvck her. So that’s it.

Now there is this little problem. I’m getting too close with her without even getting a real kiss. In some way she always comes to me and we go to another club together. We are having fun and it’s no problem getting a kiss on my mouth. But at that time she was fvcking another guy. But that was not my problem.

So here comes my stupid little technique I tried to not going AFC on her. “If she likes me, she will get the drinks and stuff” that worked, it worked so fvcking good I got totally wasted. But still no pvssy!

Yesterday she texted me where I was so we could meet up. So we did. She told me she broke up with her boyfriend. But in the end when I asked her to go home with me she resisted and stayed.

Should I NEXT her or go on, there are no real feelings on my side right now, but I now this pattern and she will use me as her cuddling*****?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh btw, I'm not that hooked to her to do anything for her. Tuesday I was in bed with another girl, but this girl has something I can't let go. WTF?
 
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