“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I being Bug-A-Boo around women or not?

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Question....I have bascially followed everything that Doc Love says in his principles...That's why I have been w/ this girl for over 2 years..and she does everything for me..buys me things, takes me out, extremely considerate.....but there is one little thing that annoys me and I need some guidance on it...When I ask my girl to do something, she is not the most timely person..I have to ask her a few times before it gets done but it aggravates her when I keep asking because she says she feels that I don't trust her to handle things...She may have a point, I don't know...When someone says there going to do something I get ancy if it is not done ASAP because I do things ASAP...I told her from now on, I'll ask her one time and won't say anything else about it but she felt I was being mean about it...I really wasn't but I don't know....like I said the Pros outweight the Cons in this relationship..but this is one thing that bothers me...How should I handle it?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She might be like me. I tend to procrastinate until the last minute a lot of the time. I am, however, VERY reliable and dependable. However, I do things my way, on my terms and on my time table. If someone pesters me to do something before I'm ready to do it I get so annoyed that I put it off even longer than I otherwise would. IF this is how your girlfriend is then you may as well just accept it and not try to change her because it will only cause problems between you. It's not a big deal as long as she does do the things she says she will do. So just understand and remind yourself that she isn't an ASAP person and that's okay and you don't need to pester her about things unless she starts not doing them at all. Just give her time to do them on her own time frame.
 

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and you were with her for 2 years? must not be that big of a deal. im the same way though, if something needs to be done, do it

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You sound like a jackass... your girlfiend must get annoyed.
 
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