Am i a bad person?

[AnkleBreaker]

I knew this chick for awhile she invited me to a party saturday she and her friend pick me up. On the way to the party she was all touchin on me and kissin. Thing is she has a b/f and hes at the party were going to this guy is mad jelous i say whats up to him and the other 3 dudes ther, so im chillin at the table drinkin listening to 50cent.

And then her b/f starts freestylin and dude was goin off man i was like whoa, so this guy goes into the bathroom cuz his friend is puking and then his girl just jumps on me and starts makin out with me i was like dam, she does this everytime hes out of the room.

I go to the bathroom to wash my face and come out and same **** plus she was grabbin on my c0ck so then sum guy calls her b/f and i dunno dude snaps and was like threating to kill the guy.

And he was all like i know your fukin with sum other guy cuz you always come home actin like your all high and mighty
(Basically i boost her confidence he lowers it) and if i find out who it is etc...., what was funny was i was the guy and i was sitting right across from him rofl so hes all pissed she's crying sayin thats why i wanna leave you blah blah they go home her friend drives me home.

Fast foward to today the same girl calls me up and says she's comin to my house, well i bangd her and man did my **** fit like a glove in her *****.

I think the guy deserved it he's one of those psycho possesive types sayin you cant go here, you cant wear this, who are you talking to, wher are you at, what time are you coming home.

To add fuel to the fire she lives 2 blocks down from my sisters house so like 2 days before that party she would pretend she was walkin her dog but was over ther talkin to me.

 

[DJDamage]

The chick is a lying hor. You don't owe this guy sh1t because he aint your friend. Just don't get on an ego trip like you did in your second last paragraph trying to justify that he deserved it and that you are the better man. A hor is a hor and if she is capable to disrespect and cheat on one man, she is more then capable to pull the same sh1t to you.

Don't fall into LTR with this chick because you will recieve the same fate.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by DJDamage
The chick is a lying hor. You don't owe this guy sh1t because he aint your friend. Just don't get on an ego trip like you did in your second last paragraph trying to justify that he deserved it and that you are the better man. A hor is a hor and if she is capable to disrespect and cheat on one man, she is more then capable to pull the same sh1t to you.

Don't fall into LTR with this chick because you will recieve the same fate.

Pretty much. She's a c0ck-socket and that's it. Bang her while the bangin's good and keep looking for a REAL woman.

Also, you'd best hope her BF doesn't find out. Not saying he could take you or anything, but jealousy makes people do CRAZY stuff.

 

[Kerensky]

He's gonna pump your ass full of lead.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by Kerensky
He's gonna pump your ass full of lead.

and all for a dirty *****!
I just don't get why some people just don't understand one of the most simple unwritten rules, DON'T MESS AROUND WITH ANOTHER MAN'S WOMAN!

and when he kicks your ass you will be asking yourself was it worth it? just some dirty skank!

 

[Robbie]

This has the potential to be a lose-lose-lose situation

The boyfriend has problems and shouldn't be in a relationship until he decides to stop being a psycho possessive type who tries to control his girlfriend by threatening her with violence.

The girlfriend has problems and shouldn't be in a relationship until she respects herself enough to get away from men who abuse her. She should also decide if she wants to have a monogamous relationship or if she wants to sleep with every Tom, Richard, and Harry, and be up-front about it before people get diseases or get into fights over her.

AnkleBreaker, I think a lot of young guys here dream about pulling the stuff you pulled, but I'm not sure if you keep playing this game that things will work out as well as they do in our fantasies. The boyfriend sounds like he's beyond emotionally unstable and this chick is too emotionally unstable herself to run far the hell away from him. Your involvement in this situation will not help them see the error of their ways. It will likely trigger an explosion.

Maybe you're invincible, and bullets, knives, and cheap shots roll right off of you, but I'm willing to believe that this girl is in a lot of trouble as soon as her boyfriend is able to confirm that she is cheating on him. The least that could happen is that you'll have to stop seeing her. The worst that could happen may involve the court, doctors, or morticians.

I don't really know what's funny about this situation. LL Cool J shares your sentiments in his song "I'm the type of guy," but he leaves out the verse about the girl getting abused and the guy having just that final piece of evidence that he needed to confirm that all women are bad before he does something crazy and ruins lives.

Are you a bad person? I don't know you. Let's hope the boyfriend isn't.

 

[penkitten]

i dont think you are a bad person because you have a consience and you feel badly enough for this.

like dj damage said, you dont owe this dude anything and she is a cheater for her actions.

i would steer clear of her and hope the whole thing doesnt surface .

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by squirrels
Pretty much. She's a c0ck-socket and that's it. Bang her while the bangin's good and keep looking for a REAL woman.

Also, you'd best hope her BF doesn't find out. Not saying he could take you or anything, but jealousy makes people do CRAZY stuff.

Yeah, don't get emotional with her. She may be messing around with a lot of guys at the same time.

 

[jprjrjr]

It always makes me laugh when guys like this mess with another guy's chick and think they're cool. If he's such a bad guy, why hasn't she left him? If she's so scared, why is she fvcking around on him?

You might think you're cool now, but if this dude turns out to be a psycho, ask yourself how cool you are then.....

Stay safe bro...and good luck with this situation. I hope it works out well for you...

 

[spider_007]

messing with someone elses chick is DRAMA WAITHING TO HAPPEN. Even tho the guy might not be my friend and might be an ass, I wouldn't mess with his chick. We men need to show respect to each other. There are lot more HOes outhere, enough for everybody.

 

[squirrels]

Stop chastising him for messing around with other guys' chicks. If this guy had his girl locked down right, she wouldn't be messing around. A lot of people are just whining because they've lost their OWN girlfriends to someone else and are trying to put their "superior moral attitude" on everyone to make sure it doesn't happen again. It CAN and WILL happen. Get over it.

If this guy gets his ass beat or shot, or this girl cheats on him and gives him herpes, then he gets what he deserves, but that's his life.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

You see,I hear stories like this and things from my freinds and I just lose more respect for women everyday.

It's sad really.

Just fawk her and dump here,she's not worth sh1t.

 

[Jay-X]

same stuff happened to me 2 months ago. the fact is, she made a mistake and sent a SMS to her boyfriend saying "jay-x, i wanna make out with you", then he steals her mobile and calls me. i answer and he asks me who i am and where the fùck i am. i tell him and he comes there. i'm about to whip his @ss, but i notice that there are 6 of them with crow bars, plus the girl crying him to let me go. i tell her "it's ok, mind your own business". we discuss for a few minutes, he puts his hands on me, i put mine on him, but we don't fight. then he tells me and his girlfriend to fùck off and goes away. (notice that i wasn't interested in this girl, i was there just to meet MY GIRLFRIEND). anyway, guys like this are so stupid that probably you won't be beaten if you can act properly (that is, explaining that it's her fault and showing that they can beat your @ss now, but when you get one of them alone he's going to the hospital)... you are still going to lose the girl... not big deal, i assume...

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by squirrels
Stop chastising him for messing around with other guys' chicks. If this guy had his girl locked down right, she wouldn't be messing around. A lot of people are just whining because they've lost their OWN girlfriends to someone else and are trying to put their "superior moral attitude" on everyone to make sure it doesn't happen again. It CAN and WILL happen. Get over it.

If this guy gets his ass beat or shot, or this girl cheats on him and gives him herpes, then he gets what he deserves, but that's his life.

Nobody was chastising him, or giving a "superior moral attitude". We just told him to watch his johnson, because this kind of shyt can get out of hand. As far as whining, that sounds more like what you were doing. You think it's an inevitability that chicks will cheat? Sounds like you don't have your own ho's tied down home boy.

 

[JonJack]

Take a lesson from Jay-X's experience. The dude could leave you alone, beat the crap outta you, cripple you or downright kill you off. Knowing that you're messing around with some other guy's girl, you should be prepared for either one of those outcomes. If you are unwilling or afraid to face any of them, then drop the chick as soon as you find out that she's taken.

Guys who get all worked up when their girl runs off with another guy are so insecure. They might want to act tough and all, but deep down they're no alpha male.

 

[Robbie]

actually, I think the way these guys behave is really close to the way an alpha male would behave... in growling at the female and trying to claw and tooth his sneaky competitor.

unfortunately, in human society this just makes them look worse. Alpha's probably not always the most appropriate way to act.