"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright it's time for me to be entirely honest with myself

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Start implementing... it's useless to think and overthink

You in sales... you should know that.

You succesful in sales... you should know that.

Being Good in Sales, makes you good in approaching and ''seducing''...

It's the same methods... except instead of the ''car/object (tangible)'' you sell to the women (who might be a intangible good... idea of emotions/emotions/dream etc..)

But no matter the what you sales... it's always the same:
1. Approach
2. Develop Contact / Relation
3. Find out the needs
4. Supply suggestions to the needs
5. Closing

Dating/Seduction is the same.

If you that good in sales 500 threads about the same thing shouldn't even exist.... but whatever she can't verify that.

So now you know after 500 posts... that girls are like cars... dating/seduction is like sales... Approach/Contact/Develop/Solutions/Closing
 
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