"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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silverwolfalpha

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hey guys. I have started to learn the Dj's ways 3 years ago. Been in the field quite a bit, then got my now 2y LDR Gf and was a wingman for my best friend.
Thing i was thinking is, if some of you learn to be the alpha just for one nights, then why not buy a sex doll? its easier way and it saves money. I have read one of those can be better than the real thing,so why not?

Why do we have to learn to play these games, is it because we were all sad, down sodden loser and desperate betas who has to learn to play these games to immitate the actions of an alpha? is it because we have learnt fear through countless rejections and being played around with like a bich which she sits and laughs?
or do we want more?

why do you want to become alpha?

here is why i did it, i was obsessed with this girl(perfect 9) in my high school.She jumped from jerk to jerk,yet she asked me to the prom. I said yes but then i changed my mind.
Then i learned to be an alpha to get revenge on those biches who breaks men's hearts
is this your reason?

Now i am with my 2y GF who i plan to stick to, and you know what. I am actually happy. No more waiting for calls, no more knowing that she likes you because you have learnt all the moves. No more "i can't do this, i am an alpha", no more insecurities, no more bullsht, no more...

The "game" isn't that interesting, really

the real challenge is to keep a woman in LTR really head over heals for you. One night stand is easy, go to any club and you will get some.
Yet get a girl to have hots for you all through years and years to come? can you do it?
that is the ultimate test
try it, LTR is the real test of the alphas, and only REAL alphas will take them up.
Because fake alphas do not have the guts, skills or security to be with a woman and be faithful to her.

Don't you agree?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slickaz

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being alpha is not just about women dude..
when you revolve your life around women..then you're nowhere near being an alpha male..

infact women is a good outcome to you being alpha, along with a good job, good money, healthy living, happiness and self confidence. it changes the way you think, live and learn.

LTR does not make you alpha..it takes you away from living like how men are supposed to live..roam free, learn. mingle and fvk like rabbits. admittedly every guy wants to find that one girl that is worth it. thats the one you ltr with.

finding a girl to be in an ltr with is easier than you think. if you're willing to wrap yourself arounud her finger and have her cheat on u all the time..then you can find just abt any chic off the street to hv an ltr with.

this is not a game bru..its a way of life..its how the way of living that you will reflect upon on your deathbed and smile.. not one where you reflect and think "man! my whole life ive spent chasing happiness from this woman.."

instead an alpha male says "yessss!! ive lived a healthy, confident, happy life filled with achieving my goals, pushing myself physically, ive not wasted a moment more than i needed to on women or stuff that doesnt make me a better man..and not to mention the amazing 6000 females ive laid on my way here..."

its hard to get there and thats why you have many guys signing up for LTRs..its cool most DJ and alpha men can understand why some dudes give up..but the outcome once you're here..is worth living for!!
 

Zerotwoonenine

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different way of thinking i think. how would you know that a woman would cheat on you? if you have her around your fingers, is it not a different story?
 
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