all or nothing

[pancakepalace]

Well as some of you might of read, I had a girl go a bit flaky on me in the last week.

I was kind of tired of her mixed up confusions and decided it was time to talk. She wasn't budging much saying she was overworked and didn't feel romantic, but that it might come back. I then laid it all out saying to her that maybe we should simply end it. The conversation finished in a strange way and left a sour taste in my mouth.

She calls back the next day and complete reversal. And she has been in a much better mood in the last few days.

I was wondering if any of you experienced DJ's ever use this technique before and how often it has worked?

It took all my courage do to because I really dig this one. But, I reasoned that even though she's a gem it didn't really matter much if she acted uninterested.

 

[libre]

Beautifully played

Well played.

Be steadfast. Play your piece and don't let her distract you. If she starts playing in tune you might be in for a couple of beautifull moments. Don't let her play her charms and test your fortitude, she wont like it if you get distracted by her. She wont like it if if you change tune or tempo. You need to be carefull about those princesses; their antics can drive you crazy if you let them.

Be a man, play solo if need be, that's what she will appreciate.

Anyway, if you stand up to her antics and things don't work out, you will feel good about yourself.

 

[sapphire]

YES. I have used the same technique with good results.

The bottom line is women by and large are attracted to men of strong character. They will test you to see how much of a man you are either consciously or subconsciously. In this case, you demonstrated to her that you were willing to walk away if she continued to act like a bytch. You passed her test and as the result, she is now doing the chasing realizing that you are a good catch.

The problem with so many guys is that they are afraid to put their foot down fearing that it will scare women away when just the opposite is true.

 

[Ricky]

Great points guys. It is a good idea to be able to show your willing to walk away. I've been bad about this in the past, but I do agree that it can work.

 

[JoeBlack]

I have just done the same.

Slightly different situation, but quite a few things frustrated me about a certain girl I liked so I just said unless it changes, its not going to work.

Little change, but not much, so within a week I just said look, now we're friends, just isn;t working.

We'll see if I get the same results as you, hope so, but not hanging out for it