"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my high school is an all guys school
its a great school to get an education at but it sucks for meeting girls

how do i over come this HUGE obstacle?

btw the name of my school is Columbus thats why i have that sn
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tucking fypo said:
tell your mom to switch you out..
its like one of the BEST private schools in my area and i enjoy the school over all just hate that theres no girls

+im in the honors program and if i switch to another school BUH BYE HONORS
 

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lol that souks!!! All guy school! also sounds GAY!>!>!>! What you can do? Imagine you were 39 years old, go places, take stuff, like music after school, go to movies, chiks are eveeywhere, unless you live in all guys island or sometin..
 

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Which is more important to you:

1) An education that includes learning to interact with the OTHER 50% of the worlds population, having a good social life, and getting laid;

2) Or "Honours"

It's your choice. I went to an all-guys private school through elementary and middle-school. I have to say, while the in-class education was good...It was one of the worst decisions my parents made for me. The written work is only part of an education, the other(and more useful) part is in learning how to deal with people and interact successfully...Considering 53% of the worlds population is female, I don't think it's wise to exclude them from the Education Equation.

Again, your choice.;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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also high school imo is all about making momenets, going on prom " in all guys HS when there is a prom you hook up with all girls high school" (i think)
gettign the first kiss , drama drama drama . freinds etc. w/e

i would definantely switch out. imagine spending # of years with no girls or anything to hope for. your dj skills will decrease dramticially and that is the last thing we would want to see.
 

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REal definition of DJ=Disc Jockey, how do i know that? Couse i am a DJ! W00t W00t
 

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Unless you plan on going to an Ivy league school, then switch out asap. Just do well in your new high school, there are "honors" and "Advanced Placement" classes in normal public schools, and you can still get in to any good university as long as you do well. Or if your so focused on education then go to a catholic school or another private school which allows both sexes. Or go out and talk to girls after school gets out.

I mean didn't you already know the answer to this question? It's not a huge obstacle at all, your just making it one because your against going to another school.
 

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Going to an all guys school didn't kill me. Actually, it was fvcking awesome. Less dramas and bullsh1t, more opportunity to play rugby every lunchtime. I'd much rather be smashing people than sitting down talking about who-told-who-about-that-supposed-breakup-by-those-two-over-there crap.

But then again, we did used to skip class and go to the all girls school down the road :rockon:
 

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yeah I go to an all guys school it sucks.... but its a really good school though, the best in the state, and its public so its basically like a private school that doesnt waste your money. So im not leaving...... but its really bad cause I barley ever see girls. Its not like a prison or anything, theres guys at my school who see girls all the time, so school doesnt really affect how you go with girls, you do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I went to an all boys school 3 years ago it ****ed me up so much socially. I mean I am so lucky I only stayed there a year. But I was tearing it up there I was in the top 5 kids in almost every subject. The school also meant 1.5hours travel every day.

But now I have been at the public school **** is better I am nearly finished school and you know I am kind of sad. ****N University better be better.
 

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you all are dumb. get your priorities straight.

girls before school?

dumbasses... :rolleyes:

success in life will naturally get you girls. going far in school will make you much more successful later down the road. you'll have money to actually go on GOOD dates.

you have plenty of time to talk to girls while being at a all guys school... join some out of school things... make friends with friends and their female friends.

i can't believe you people. so retarded... switch schools from the BEST private school to a cheap slut filled public school? like i said... get your priorities straight.
 
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^ Right you are.

The Columbus Myth, ignore what most have said here. They are probably jealous that you are public educated and attend the best school in your area. It's a privilege to have such good education, so make the most of it.

Forget about girls for the moment and focus on achieving good results and having a career in place.

There's a lot of uneducated fools in this forum.
 
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isnt there an all girls school for every all guys school? im pretty sure there is cus i kno u guys still hav prom n stuff...
 

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sounds like a excuse for me..

if ur truly good with women u can do stuff outside

plus u dont learn much about girls in school. it doesnt help approaching skillz cause u have it to ez in skewl

also education should matter alot more... just find girls out of skewl man around 75% of my friends have gfs/bfs OUTSIDE of skewl anyway
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Junaid said:
sounds like a excuse for me..

if ur truly good with women u can do stuff outside

plus u dont learn much about girls in school. it doesnt help approaching skillz cause u have it to ez in skewl

also education should matter alot more... just find girls out of skewl man around 75% of my friends have gfs/bfs OUTSIDE of skewl anyway

ur rite it is an excuse and i shouldnt use it becuz excuses are just a way of asking for a handicap
 
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