"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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duffman360

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my step cousin and i are planing to stop by an all girl school to pick up some girls
what r some useful tips for this
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DismantleRepair

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Bring a girl with you and pretend she's your sister/cousin.

If it's just you two guys seen at an all girls' school, they'll know exactly what you're up to.
 

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what if we just happen to be walking our dog past there will it seem to obvious
 

DismantleRepair

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Yeah, well so will approaching a whole girls school. It just seems really predatory.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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duffman360

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so what do u suggest if we can't get a girl to pretend to be my sister / cousin
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Colin O'Brien said:
My advice: make friends with a lesbian. Talk about a win-win situation.
yes...... IF typical lesbians were the typical lesbian pornstars.

i have yet to meet a decent looking lesbian.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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duffman360

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we just came from the school and it was very disappointing there were very few good looking girls and the ones that did look good were in the cars with their parents
 

Joe The Homophobe

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duffman360 said:
we just came from the school and it was very disappointing there were very few good looking girls and the ones that did look good were in the cars with their parents
im guessing it is a private school. Girls in private schools don't take care of themselves like girls in public schools/colleges. Girls in private schools mostly care about studying.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How's security? Security is pretty tight at my Catholic school. I can only imagine the Threat Level going to code red whenever security sees a guy on campus.
 

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for this situation just test some routines 9 out of 10 the girls will see you as predatory unless your with 2-3 pivots.(girls)
 
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