alittle help?.

[lafual]

Hey i have a few question:

1: Some girl said to me when i was talking to her "so, you play hard to get. eh?"

what the hell should i say now?.. my answare was "tsjj yeah, if you want me so badly, you have to prove it,
show me that you want me, and not only going for my Looks and body like other girls do!"
eh what a dumb respons huh?, what should i say next time if a girl ask me that line

2. Im a very bad at starting a conversation, it isnt so hard to meet a girl, but its hard to start an conversation with a girl that i know and not know

what should i do, what should i ask, how should i go.. i cant just say "hi, what a beautifull day" orsometing
for exampel. i take a girl that i know about out on lunch,, i tell her "what do you wwant" balbla, i pick up the food, bring it to her and me
and what tehn? what should i ask, i cant use those question, that we are asking on a date, like what do you like etc.. I already know her, so what kind
of question can i ask her..

3. its only 1 week left till i start on school again, a NEW school.. ehm what should i do?, should i just say "hi. im ..."
what else should i talk about myself.. its kinda hard, cuz people are in group and im alone.. those people know eachother but i dont know none of them
so its kinda hard.. its kinda hard to get known them, what should i say





I hope you guys givme more than one setnece, how to talk and givme some tips and tricks


thx, hope you guys understand what im trying to say thx

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Her : "so, you play hard to get. eh?"

Me: " I don't play hard to get... I AM hard to get." :Big Smile:

As for #2, I find telling stories and just gabbing works best. You can tell stories about trips you've been on and get her to talk about her trips, etc... anything to get remembering some good memories and feeling those feelings, again. Don't play 20 questions... that is just lame.

If you're jiving well with a girl, the convo usually just flows.

And #3:

You're pretty much asking us to give you tips into getting social skills. You need to work on that, yourself. Many people, me included can walk into a room full of absolute strangers and feel right at home. It's all in your head and if you can have a confident, "I own this place" attitude (without being an arrogant ass) people will tend to gravitate towards you... body language and your demeanor have alot to do with this. You can't have the attitude if you look like a skinny little computer nerd.

 

[lafual]

Her : "so, you play hard to get. eh?"

Me: " I don't play hard to get... I AM hard to get." :Big Smile:

As for #2, I find telling stories and just gabbing works best. You can tell stories about trips you've been on and get her to talk about her trips, etc... anything to get remembering some good memories and feeling those feelings, again. Don't play 20 questions... that is just lame.

If you're jiving well with a girl, the convo usually just flows.

And #3:

You're pretty much asking us to give you tips into getting social skills. You need to work on that, yourself. Many people, me included can walk into a room full of absolute strangers and feel right at home. It's all in your head and if you can have a confident, "I own this place" attitude (without being an arrogant ass) people will tend to gravitate towards you... body language and your demeanor have alot to do with this. You can't have the attitude if you look like a skinny little computer nerd.

#2..
ehm what "if" i dont have any stories to tell, or cant remember some of my stories?

#3
thx where can i find that stuff? about Body language etc..?

 

[diablo]

This site doesn't operate on canned lines; if you want help with your conversational skills you need to read the DJ Bible's section devoted to conversation, then do a search through the forum for the same topic. Your situation is not unique, believe me when I say it's been discussed about 23984 times before.