"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlekNovi

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Week 1, Day 5 - This **** has got some BENEFITS

I got me some discount from the cutie working at the photo-service. Today I did some 6-9 hi's... I ain't counting. They're just a coming out they is I swear lol... But (i think) 2 of them were short convo's (comment, response, response back)... And the most interesting of these was one of those ****ing... you know like dressed to the ****ing nines girl. The kind that when you see walking down the street you're like... holy ****... i'm not worthy lol. I'm talking made hot... i.e. girl who has obviously spent incredible amounts of time in picking the right clothes, starving herself (lol), picking the right tight pants, the right little designer handbag etc... etc... So physically, type-wise an 7.5 and made-hot 10.

Now this was the second belief re-programming i've had with these types of girls. The first was when I started direct. They were starry-eyed and looked at me like god... it was intoxicating... but 2 problems: 1) I put all the power in the method (more precisely the opener and following compliments).. i.e. i didn't think they could possibly be attracted to me. It was the thing i was DOING. It wasn't ME! That's how I felt. I felt that if I did ask one of these girls a non-chalant question or opened them neutral, they wouldn't give me the time of day. And they didn't for most of the time.

Today. I just found myself (somewhere on the street) giving this girl just a charming innocous comment... and she started glowing like I was ****ing brad pitt. I don't even know what I said. Just something off the cuff silly. We bantered back and forth until I sent her to where she was going so she wouldn't be late lol.

But here's the point. I'm becoming a charming person, a person who has that VIBE, and then it doesn't matter what you say or do. It's who you are. And I'm loving it.

In the photo studio later I had like a 10-15 minute convo with the girl there, she gave me a discount and we acquinted ourselves well.

46hi's done, just 4 left, and 3 day to do them? :)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Week 1, Day 6 Report

Well as you all know I cheated and got ahead by doing it earlier and re-starting :p So today I started doing week 2 assignments. Some with the dancers and models in the agency me and my sister go. But I don't count those, as they're only half-strangers... and it's a warm-conducive to it enviroment.

So I talked to some woman on the bus-stop... for oh... i dunno easily 4... maybe 8 minutes. (week 2 is having 10 convos with strangers who aren't HBs, for ATLEAST 2, and no more than 10 minutes).

I have no idea what I talked about... Something with the busses than it got into a couple of different topics. I don't even know if we're supposed to track that.

So... I am not counting today's convo as week 2 hasn't started yet. I'm just cheating and practicing convos ahead :)
 
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