"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alcohol and Overall Feeling

LegendBoy

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Answer these questions

1. How often do you drink.
2.How do you feel when you drink Alcohol?
3.How do you feel your attitude towards life in general is, the day after?
4. How do your emotions feel the next few days in relation to school, girls, work?

My answers

1. Just started I intend to drink about once every month max.
2. During the drinking period I feel very at ease and I seem to be very casual in everything, it does give you I don't give a **** attitude to an extent
3. As dumb as this sounds I feel everything around me is boring, and I feel very dazed and UNappreciating of life and I kind of regret drinking the booze..
4. Ooo This is the BIGGY. The day after drinking and the next few days I feel depressed easily about frivalous things about a girl or anything. It seems to make me unhappy in general I do not know if these are normal side effects.


POST AWAY :cool:
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Demon

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  1. I drink when I want to drink, particularly at parties.
  2. I feel good. I drink enough to get a nice buzz.
  3. See my signature. I'm consistent.
  4. See my signature. I'm consistent.
Your problems are not related to alcohol. Alcohol brings out the real you. Read my article. Shift your approach.
 

afc_2_dj

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1. How often do you drink.

Too often!! LOL, no only when I go out, sometimes every weekend, but I have started drinking too much and too fast again [like last night so I write this with a babelas!] I must slow down tonight.

2.How do you feel when you drink Alcohol?

Drunk! :)

More confident/boistrous at first but I find I tend to get depressed and withdraw with drinking rather than become the life and soul of the party


3.How do you feel your attitude towards life in general is, the day after?

Interesting, I don't think its any different, often very depressive but thats more from zero success with women in the club than after effect from alcohol [like when I go drink at a friends place I wake up normal]

4. How do your emotions feel the next few days in relation to school, girls, work?

Normal, I can't say alcohol affects my mood/state really after drinking.
 
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