"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alabama DJ's

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Anyone else out there? I'm just here for college, so I know jack about the place.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have you learned anything about Alabama yet? And how's UWF, I'm thinking of going there but I'm leaning more towards UAB right now.
 

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Learned that Livingston sucks at night, but it's not bad during the day. Campus here isn't bad at all. It's actaully pretty nice. People seem cool around here and so the classes.
 

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i was thinking about going to UWF when i got to college, but im not sure yet, i live right around there.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Anyone else out there? I'm just here for college, so I know jack about the place.
Why the hell did you go to college in Alabama? That is a very un-DJish thing to do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Re: Re: Alabama DJ's

Originally posted by MVPlaya
Why the hell did you go to college in Alabama? That is a very un-DJish thing to do.
It's cheap. Cheaper then me staying instate in Maryland.
 

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Alabama is totally easy to DJ in. The chick you're trying to get can't really turn you down, because she has to sit next to you at family dinners:p
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Latte
Alabama is totally easy to DJ in. The chick you're trying to get can't really turn you down, because she has to sit next to you at family dinners:p
Hence the reason I'm from out of state. :D
 

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That's harsh. crazykid, you need to pass through Gulf Shores on your way to Panama City this spring break
 

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Originally posted by naluholo
That's harsh. crazykid, you need to pass through Gulf Shores on your way to Panama City this spring break
I'll check up on that. Could go down there during Thanksgiving.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want a disappointment, then sure lol... It's dead right now. Pretty much just locals here now. If you do come, the clubs are in Mobile and Pensacola. Gulf Shores is really only fun during Spring Break and some parts of summer.
 

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Come down to huntsville we keep it Crunk shawty
 

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Wanna know about t-town? ask me

I live in Tuscaloosa and I can party like no one's business. I have had parties that over 200 people have showed up at. I can show you all the places to throw down, I can tell you where to go to pick up a certain type of chick. wanna know, just ask. I'm a vat of information about tuscaloosa.
 

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The best place where I get tail in Mobile is George's Irish Pub at 3346 Cottage Hill.

No c*ckblocking from me, I promise!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the bestest parties were in t town (tuscaloosa)
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i grew up in bham
the bestest parties were in t town (tuscaloosa)
Some of those parties do seem pretty wild...Though I'm most relegated to frat parties (no car nor do I want to ride with a drunk person.)

Big Pappy - Ever hear of Cobb's in Eutaw?
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Anyone else out there? I'm just here for college, so I know jack about the place.
Why did you go to ALabama for college?
 

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Re: Re: Alabama DJ's

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Why did you go to ALabama for college?
CHEAP! :D Plus, Southern girls...*Drools*
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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