"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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akward girls

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so if an akward girl comes along and says the weirdest things how do you respond? How to game a girl like this?
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this girl keeps approaching me because i always break things in art class she calls me dropsy and says stuff like
dropsy dont kill urself u have so much to live for( and then she walks away)
then paints a picture of a spartan and says look i painted you
just weird stuff
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Captain Harlock

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she could be interested in you. I'd just respond in the usual way, but with an open mind to her weirdness. weird people can potentially be far more interesting than 'normal' people.
 

Pdizzzzzzle

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If she painting a picture of a spartan and comparing it to you it probably means she likes you. Also "dropy" or whatever is your pet name she gave you.

I'd recommend giving her a pet name if your into her. Ask if she'd like to see more of your "spartan body"

BTW

Haha, when I first read this I thought she was painting a picture of master chief....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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