"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ahhh fvck. japanese gf pregnant 2 months before I leave

f283000

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That's a bit harsh. If she says she's on the pill then its fair game. Of course that depends on how much you trust her...
So what other things that a woman says do you just believe on blind faith just cause they told you??

I need to see the actual pills and I want to see her taking it before I unleash my children inside her!

BUT we have to be realistic here. We as men will do anything for secks. We are so happy to be getting some pu$$y that in the heat of the moment we don't care about anything else but sticking it in.

It's like having a nice, juicy double cheese burger after you had nothing to eat for 2 days. You don't give a damn how you go about eating it you just start taking a bite out of it! The same happens with secks.

Not that i'm excusing his behavior. The only women I busted inside in without a condom were 45+
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would think of getting the PhD as something you do for the kid. I think you should get the degree because it will enable you to provide a better life for the child.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
re: Leave for school, enjoy American girls, and then come back to Japan and make the kid a UFC champion.



Are you illiterate? I said to come back and help raise the kid after he finishes school.
No I can read just fine. You have a warped sense of thinking. you advised him to run away like a coward from his problem. you told him to go away to have fun and screw other women. While his girlfriend goes through long a pregnancy raising a baby in another country when he isnt there to help out with what he created. that is being a coward. he made the choice to have sex with her so he should know the risks involved especially when he was being careless. He liked her enough to have sex with so he should like her enough now that she is knocked up. Now that she is he wants out and to get rid of his problem he helped make. people had to make sacrafices in their life. plans always dont turn out how you want when things like this come up. that is what life is. it isnt always isnt fair. the girlfriend has to make a sacrafice and so should he. you know damn well once he leaves that child will be her problem and he wont be there to help out. he might even knock up another girl here or find someone new. he will never go back. so your advice is horrible. He even said he wants to turn the baby loose on to another guy because he doesnt really want it. he is acting like a coward and you gave him cowardly advice. Own up to your mistakes by taking responsibility and be a man!
 

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Sosuave shows it's true colours.

He made one mistake. It's a mistake that no man worth his salt hasn't made at one time or another.

She should get a ****ing abortion. What is this, Christians R Us?

As for him having to take full responsibility he gets no say over whether she decides to keep it or not, so why should he? He took the decision to have sex with her, not have a kid with her. As women will tell you it's THEIR body, THEIR right to choose, so they should accept the consequences as well. If he was desperate to keep it and she wanted to get rid of it would he have any say in it? Women would be outraged at the very idea.

Neither of these people wants the child so why have it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yo'Mama said:
Sosuave shows it's true colours.

He made one mistake. It's a mistake that no man worth his salt hasn't made at one time or another.

She should get a ****ing abortion. What is this, Christians R Us?

As for him having to take full responsibility he gets no say over whether she decides to keep it or not, so why should he? He took the decision to have sex with her, not have a kid with her. As women will tell you it's THEIR body, THEIR right to choose, so they should accept the consequences as well. If he was desperate to keep it and she wanted to get rid of it would he have any say in it? Women would be outraged at the very idea.

Neither of these people wants the child so why have it?

you are full of crap. he was careless so he paid the price. men who are smart don't make that mistake because they are careful. it is a decision that they both make. If she wants to keep it that is his problem to take care of. When you have sex you run the risk of knocking her up. he did that so its his problem. you have a lot to learn. hope you knock some girl up and she keeps it. we will see how you feel then when they come around collecting for child support from you while youre hiding out as a coward being a dead beat dad.
 

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Better to spend 18 years bringing up a kid I didn't want I suppose. The guy is in his early 20's for God's sakes.
 

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Yeah, we've all (or at least 90%) done it before.

The urge to go bareback can be uncontrollable sometimes.

Probably just your subconscious and its desire to spread your genes.

OP, you lost the lottery. Big decision, take time to think it out.
 
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