Ahh I hate this text messaging crap.

[smooth guy]

So I met a chick bout a week ago my age (16), been gaming her since but never made a move to progress since she has a boyfriend. But I've been gaming her for practice, then I'd make my move when she was over with her bf. Most high school relationships don't last long anyway, so I didn't think it would take long.

So yesterday she confessed that she likes me. She had a crush on me since the first day we started talking. Yeah no **** sherlock She dumped her bf three days ago, yesterday she tells me this. I said I'd take her out on Friday, then I'll escalate from there...kino her, go for the kiss, etc.

She didn't have my number until yesterday...but damnit she's been texting me all day since yesterday and I'm starting to get pretty sick of it. I was at the gym lifting weights when I responded to her text while having a break telling her I'm at the gym and I don't have the time to text message back and forth. She responds back playfully and then goes on with the texts completely disregarding what I just said to her. I got annoyed and haven't responded back.

I know what you guys are thinking - text messaging is for the girls...I AGREE. Not to mention I also hate text messaging myself since it separates you from the "face to face" reality. I get with her every other day, but at the times I'm not with her she will either call or more likely text message me all the time.

Now if I tell her I don't like text messaging she's gonna think I'm some kind of weirdo (not that I care anyway) since everyone in high school does this text messaging ****. I've used that line before on another girl and the effect was minimum.

Plus I don't even want to "be there" all the time with text messages, since it is also an attraction killer and I wanna keep this chick. She's smoking hot and she is the first one who is willing to satisfy my foot fetish Just because of the fetish thing I don't wanna blow things before I even start.

So what do you guys suggest with this situation? I swear girls have way too much free time on their hands.

 

[tony-montana]

foot fetish? man, feet are the ugliest fuking things on our bodies. you must be impatient if you hate text messages? if she keeps doing it just call her instead.

 

[smooth guy]

foot fetish? man, feet are the ugliest fuking things on our bodies. you must be impatient if you hate text messages? if she keeps doing it just call her instead.

You don't know what you're missing on

Nothing to do with being impatient. Just I find it a waste of time for the most part and like I said, it kills the communication between us in the real world.

Calling I don't have much of a problem with, I'll give her a call once a day. But I'm not the type to talk with girls all day by texting and calling each other.

And I need a break. I can't be communicating with a chick from sunset to noon to bed time. It kills the attraction big time, not only from her view but from mine as well.

I'm just not sure how to break it to her in a nice way and have her lay off. That's where I need help, how to deal with the issue here.

 

[tony-montana]

well you don't have to reply straight away. i just reply whenever i want. if they send a txt like 10am: "hey how are you today" i'll reply like 5pm "im good yourself."

do it slow and the txt messaging will limit itself to like three a day! it's in your hands if she's the one who keeps txting. she will get the hint you're busy and aren't really fond with texting.